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30 Micro Resolution Categories
Random Observation/Comment #541: Motivation only gets you so far. Create long term habits that effectively build you to become a better person without even thinking about it.
Why this list?
90% of New Year’s Resolutions fail within the first 2 months – why? Because we set our standards too high and phrase our changes too broad. People focus too much on BEING a certain type of person instead of DOING different actions to slowly transform them to this person. After listening to a talk from Caroline Arnold and reading her book “Small Move, Big Change“, I’ve decided to implement her recommended micro-changes.
Before jumping in, I thought her explanation of willpower and autopilot to be important to point out. You only have a limited amount of willpower throughout the day and it gets spent when you actively initiate a task and make decisions (decision fatigue). Whenever you decide to go to the gym, you use up that willpower, however if you ingrain going to the gym as an autopilot habit, then you don’t need to use that extra power. Rewiring existing autopilot habits are very difficult, but not impossible – you just need repetition to make that change stick.
In essence, large resolutions declare war on autopilot and will always lose because they spend too much willpower to make those large changes. Instead, take on 2-3 micro-resolutions every 30 days and make those big changes in the long term.
As with all resolutions and challenges, the planning and initial few days of getting into the groove is the most difficult part. Caroline’s suggestion is to really analyze your existing habits and break down the bottlenecks that are stopping you from reaching your goals. The book is filled with lots of examples on how people have made these micro-resolutions, but it’s only effective if it is personal to your own changes. For me, I wanted to first outline categories for improvement and then dive deeper into each area to make small changes to the habit that can be sustainable for a longer period of time.
How to write this list?
Pay attention to your routines and consider all areas of improvement in your life. It might not be a bad idea to review your Most Important Things List and seeing if you’re doing anything specifically to block them. Also consider the broader category of changes in Mind, Love, Food, and Move. Break these down into specific categories as you see fit. For example, Health may be too general, and you can dissect it into Diet, Exercise, Mindful eating, etc.
Productivity – set aside more time to get things done
Verbal Communication – speaking eloquence, summarizing, and idea transfer
Simplified Written Communication – simple and clear requirements
Visualized Communication – utilizing diagrams and infographics effectively
Kinder Communication – awareness of other’s feelings when writing emails or speaking
In-person Communication – awareness of body language
Leadership – take initiative and ownership of items
Mental Growth – learn something new in breadth and depth
Stretch – physical limber
Exercise Cardio – improved heart and overall health
Mindful Eating – being more aware of what we put in our body
Reduced toxins – moderation of alcohol, meat, caffeine, nicotine, etc
Strengthen Physical – with activities improve performance
Strengthen Emotional – having fewer things bother you
Return to life – take time away from technology and hone in on what matters
Connect – foster relationships and maintain connections
Integrate – realize your own and others’ strengths, build something from it
Mental health – meditate and relax
Saving money for… – little costs add up and so do little savings
Empower Others – inspiring and providing the resources needed for innovation/growth
Creativity – thinking of more ideas in a practical approach
Organization – storing and retrieving items efficiently
Minimization – reducing our overall footprint of material goods
Online Branding – filtering through your top 10 google searches of your name to ensure your preferred representation
Career Reputation – honing what you’re known for at work through actions
Hygiene – improvement of general cleanliness
Physical Image – improvement of fashion, style, and personal view of yourself
Happiness – general elation and the foundation of providing continuous elation
Sleep – refill that willpower
Patience – wait for it…
Now that you have some areas for improvement, think through how you can personally change 1 habit that will make this category better. Next post, My 30 Micro-resolutions.
~See Lemons Prepped for Resolve
Originally published on seelemons.com